The words just won't come out of my mouth and I was wondering if you had any tips to get over fear like that.
Becca: If you’re worried that she is not a physically romantic person and does not want to be kissed, just ask. You can try to be suave about how you bring it up (“So I was reading this thing on tumblr today about how people have different levels of physical affection…. What do you think about that?”). However, if you assume she enjoys physical affection like most people do, it’s a simple matter of nerve. You guys have been dating for a while, so she clearly likes you. I’d say wait for a good moment, then go for it. Try to be spontaneous (rather than elaborately setting up an opportunity) but probably not so spontaneous that you cut her off with a kiss in the middle of a sentence or while she’s turning her head. Because that’s just awkward.